First love is the purest feeling, unadulterated, childish and rememberable. Everyone has once a while fell in love and had stayed in it, relished it and learned something new out of it.
The first relationship frames you. The feeling of love and being loved cannot be correlated with any other feeling.
Being in love is a full-time job, it continuously polishes you. Here are different things you experience in the first relationship.
YOU ARE NO MORE SINGLE
YES, this is the very first thing in getting in a relationship. You are not alone now, there is someone all time to look after you, to adore you, to listen to you and to pamper you. That’s the very first variation you experience. Even when the person is not around, even if you are sitting alone, your mind is filled with the thought of your beloved.
Strange, but yes. When you enter your first relationship, your heart blooms like a flower and your body reflects it.
SIGNIFICANCE OF COMMUNICATION
First love is the first time you are intertwined with someone and you openly communicate. And it is when you learn how to maturely communicate your feeling. And you come to know the value of words.
YOU BECOME SELFLESS
You keep your lover on a higher pedestrian than you keep yourself. Seeing you’re beloved happy makes you happier than anything else. You now don’t remain self-centered anymore. And that’s the positive part of being in a relationship, you learn to adjust.
LEARN ABOUT TRUST
You come to know the importance of trust; trust is the root of any relationship. Being in a relationship teaches you how to build trust on other and how to keep the trust surviving.
NEITHER LIFE IS PERFECT NOR YOU AND YOUR BELOVED
Love is not always about happy time, every relationship passes through hurdles, there can be fights in course of knowing each other and you learn to work out problems and be back again and keep the same essence going on. Neither you are perfect nor your partner, so keep polishing one another.
IT’S NOT ALWAYS ABOUT MONEY
Money is not only the way to make you happy, sometimes a walk at the side of the beach is more awesome than a dinner at expensive hotel. You learn happiness is not related to money always, it’s beyond hard cash
SHOWER OF FEELINGS
It is not just feeling of love you experience, in due course of time you experience all kind of feeling completeness, delight fullness, trilled, relaxed also the unpleasant feeling likes annoyed, frustrated, crushed and a bundle of them. That’s not the end yet. You understand silence; silence can say plenty of things. Sometimes you might end up with topics but the silence in between you can say plenty of things, which words fail to describe.
Being in love is all new experience. Man is a build-up of experience, and first love is one of them. So live and learn from each second that has passed and overcome your loopholes.